The first time I took away half of my kids’ toys it involved an “incident” that happened while I was nursing the baby.
(Maybe you remember this one….)
The type of incident which included three jars of baby powder; me having an out-of-body experience of unreasonable calmness; a tearful vacuuming session (my tears mostly); and two toddlers requiring baths. As punishment for said incident there was mopping duty and half of their toys, specifically the ones coated in a layer of baby powder, were sent to the creepy basement with all our unfolded laundry.
(Gratuitous instagram of said creepy basement and my impressive collection of clean, unfolded laundry)
This ones for you @onefunjac Laundry tips for the linen-laden: 1. Keep it in the creepy basement 2a. The spiders will fold it, or 2b. It will turn into a train and wheel itself away…. But really, somedays I sort it into baskets and put it away without folding #theotherfword #laundryproblems #mybasementiswhereairgoestodie #realstockphotos
Maybe they were somehow selective about which bins of toys they tossed about and doused with baby powder. But with half of their toys in exile, I expected lots of tears. I expected them to join forces and wage a mutiny of crayon hieroglyphics and Lego traps. But they carried along like these confiscated toys were never part of their lives in the first place.
I realized two things, 1. They were fine with less. 2. When they don’t have their toys, they still find things to play with.
These toys stayed in the basement for about a month. I started to pay attention to their relationship with their toys and noticed a few trends.
useful content They had a few favourite toys. Toys they played with every single day. For Levi, it was cars and trucks. For Nena, it was dress-up clothes, which if I’m honest, have been crossing the line into daily wear. But the world needs more fairy-princess-super-elephants, in my opinion.
http://annatyrrell.com/news Then there were all the other non-favourite toys. In order for these other toys to hold their interest for longer than it takes me to say “chocolate-covered espresso beans” the toys had to be put “in the closet.” Because it turns out, any toys we keep in the “closet of wonders” alongside other treasures like toilet paper and vitamins get a special place in the hearts of toddlers. They can’t access it, so they want it — until they’re so over it, and then back in the closet it goes
Beyond their favourites, the cached toys, there is one other thing the kids play with. No,OBVIOUSLY not all the OTHER toys in the house! They play with all non-toy items. Like that toilet paper baby Nena tucks into the cupboard. Or that ball of yarn Levi unravels around the dining table to be his “finish lines.”
The month with half their toys showed me they didn’t need more toys, all the toys. They just needed the toys they loved the most, and a cardboard box — you feel me!
Since then, we have been a lot more ruthless about clearing out the excess of toys. Here are some Tips on Purging Kids’ Toys that have worked for us!
Make sure you stop in and visit my girl Sarah from Sarah on Purpose. I love this post digging deeper into how we invest ourselves into three main aspects of life, and what we should do when we hit a wall.
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