This is a landing page to help you get started with decluttering and minimalism in your home to SIMPLIFY YOUR HOME!
I think we are all craving it: Simplicity.
I hear more and more women talking about it, pinning it, sharing their ideas on it over coffee.
We want simplicity because we want less stress, more time, less cleaning, less work, more fun, less debt, more of all that we love. There lots of ways to simplify: capsule wardrobes, meal plans, technology timeouts, house decluttering, homemade yogurt, marriage challenges…. All intentional efforts to bring all our attention and resources to things that bring us joy and the people that we love.
I started my journey about four years ago. I had just read a book called the Joy of Less and thought minimalism was my new mantra. It has lead me to declutter my entire home and really evaluate my approach to living all together. It has inspired me to live my life ON PURPOSE
I think it’s inspiring, all this ‘purposeful’ living. It is so much more than how we manage and organize our physical possessions. When we purposefully strip away all the distractions (things of little use or joy), in the name of simplicity, we are left face to face an intimate view of each relationship. Relationships to our bodies, our spouses, our hearts, our homes, our things, our time, our kids, our money. Both the process of removing the excess and being left without the distractions begs thoughtfulness on all our relationships in terms what we avoid, neglect, nourish, hide, flaunt, attend to, ignore, use, adorn, and so on.
I’ve come to see that this isn’t an overnight thing. Especially if you want to be thoughtful about how you declutter and move stuff out of your home. Also, you’ve probably spent at least a decade building up this life, it can’t be dismantled and organized in a week.
So take your time and keep at it!
How to prepare your mindset for decluttering your home – this isn’t a checklist or challenge, it is some real talk to your brain and heart on getting started
How I Started Decluttering My Family Home (+ tips and insights) – many people ask me how I started, so here it is. Also some takeaways that will help you declutter your home
Til We Have Just Enough Stuff – asking yourself about the home you grew up in, thinking of the way you have you accumulated as an adult, deciding that you want to live with ‘ENOUGH’
What Pinterest Doesn’t Tell You About Home Organization – a good mindset to start out with is how decluttering will help you with your approach to home organization
The Burden of Things – having clutter in our home can have a genuine burden on our space, our wallets and our emotional well-being
The Habit of Consumption – moving from the mindset of ‘consuming’ to the mindset of ‘creating and doing’
Books to read:
The Joy of Less by Francine Jay
Seven by Jen Hatmaker
Becoming Minimalist by Joshua Becker
How a Minimalist Thinks – we can approach decluttering with ‘is it useful, beautiful or sentimental?’ but that falls flat of some deeper mindsets that most minimalists have
Real Reasons You Can’t Finish Decluttering – as you get further into decluttering you face some hard decisions. Knowing why you are making these decisions to keep or let go will help you with this process
Is Your Home a Suitcase? – we can view our homes as a storage space, or a suitcase. Which parts of your home are storage when they should be suitcase?
I Decluttered My Home For A Year, Here is What I Learned – I watched truckloads of my possessions leave my home, I spent a year feeling defeated, the inspired and so on. This is what I can reflect on from the past year of being a dedicated declutterer
Six Types of Minimalists – I’ve come to see that there are many reasons to become and approaches to being a minimalist.
Identity Clutter – this is the clutter of things we keep because maybe we were those things, or want to be those things or think we ‘ought to be’ those things. Here is how they hold us back from truly knowing ourselves and growing – and they keep us stuck in a scarcity mindset instead of letting go to embrace abundance.
Quotes for Minimalist Motivation – I find that motivation is what keeps my home decluttered. Here are some of my fave quotes that inspire me in minimalism
When You Feel Like You Suck at Minimalism, Remember This – at some point, our decluttering process and the expectations we had about minimalism will clash. We will lose steam and lose sight for the what minimalism is really about
Six Things I Didn’t Know About Garage Sales – I had a garage sale of all my decluttered items, it didn’t go super well. Here are some things I learned on how to make it worth your time
Minimalism is Not an End-Goal, It Is a Tool – wait? what? That’s right! Declutter away but know that your end-goal will become so much bigger than a decluttered home. The ACTION of decluttering leads to so much more.
Don’t Let Minimalism Ruin Your Marriage – if your spouse isn’t into it, here are some practical tips on how to ease into minimalism without blowing up your marriage
7 Eye-Opening Lessons I Learned from 200 Days of Buying Nothing New – a great guest post from Assya Barrett on her experience
THE SPACES WE HAVE DECLUTTERED
Umm..I Thought You Were Purging Your Home – when I wanted to show you amazing before and afters but it just isn’t happening yet
Basement Shame – an update on progress in the basement
Renovations with Kids – as we have converted the basement into a play space, we had to undergo renos with kids underfoot
Our ‘Minimalist Family’ Home Update (a year later) – they aren’t groundbreaking before and afters, but they are our real life and we are proud of the hard work we put into it
The Before and After – from decluttering to renos to building a playroom with a DIY fort in it
I’m a Minimalist With a Full Kitchen, and Why I’m OK With That – as time went on, I began to see that our kitchen wouldn’t ever be ‘minimalist’ by current terms. This is why I’m all good with that!
What Happened When I Took Away Half of My Kids’ Toys – an accidental toy purge led me to some really big insights into toys
Practical Advice for Purging Kid’s Toys – how we have approached decluttering toys with the kids
A Birthday Bedroom Makeover – for my daughter’s birthday we redid her room with supplies we had on hand. We have since replaced the bed with a smaller one and built her a desk for the following birthday
What Is A Capsule Wardrobe and How to Start One – purging the closet can be so emotionally freeing, as well as freeing up your personal space too!
Tips for the Simple Closet – how to sort through your closet and keep the things that are right for you
Six Unexpected Ways That Having Less Clothes Has Made My Life Easier – how could fewer clothes make your life easier? I was skeptical, but it is true
Five Ways We Justify Needless Shopping – clothes shopping has been a weakness for me in the past. Here are some ways I’m getting a little real about why I buy clothes
Decluttering the Underwear Drawer – it’s pretty much free therapy
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