Boundaries and Burning Out in Motherhood

This post is about boundaries and the burnt-out Mom. This isn’t about the boundaries we need to set with parents, or at work, or with that one friend who only calls when they need something. This isn’t about the barriers we put up to keep people out.  This is about how it feels to be … Read more

194. I stopped calling myself a lazy mom (addressing the overwhelm of motherhood)

Do you ever find yourself trying to rest or relax and get this nagging voice telling you that you are being lazy? As moms, this can be a nightly experience, when we finally get the kids down and would like to unwind. Instead, our R&R gets hijacked by this notion that if we aren’t doing … Read more

184. Movement as self-care (exercise for wellbeing, not weight loss)

I have gone from be an avid gym-avoider, unathletic, didn’t even own a pair of running shoes, complacent with my health in many ways to someone who PRIORITIZES movement as a way to improve and maintain my sense of wellbeing.  I want to share how I got here, what makes exercise tough and simple ways … Read more

178. Don’t water the weeds (intentional parenting for proactive connection)

toddler walking up stairs with text overlay "don't water the weeds: intentional parenting for proactive connection"

Giving your child extra attention might seem like a great idea, but if it’s the wrong type of attention it could do more harm than good. Let’s learn what it means to parent intentionally and make proactive connections with your family.    Products recommended here may include referral links to Amazon. If you click through … Read more

Simple and Easy Kid Activities (mega list of ideas)

over 50 ideas to keep kids busy

A number of years back we found ourselves sitting together on New Years and having this conversation about how we wanted to raise our family. What things did we want to do with our three small kids? What things did we want to teach them? What kind of character did we want to nurture in … Read more

I was a Mom Martyr, here’s how to tell if you are too and what to do about it

I was a mom martyr

From the day you change your personal occupation to full time “Mom,” you might feel instantly banished to the world of ‘boring and domesticated.’  The label ‘Mom’ (especially Stay at home Mom) also comes with the ‘ Least Interesting Person in the Room’ award.   Society undermines the value of moms and we start believing it. Some … Read more

When I Instagrammed My Own Life, and Not My Kids

when I instagrammed my own life, and not my kids

Originally Posted: 2016   Updated: Nov 2020  Whether or not we realize it, we are all ‘influencers’. We are all sharing stories, pictures, articles, life and advice on a daily basis from our phones to ‘our people’. We are all wired to ‘live out our days’ with this online component and the grand scheme of all … Read more

When I realized I wasn’t a lazy mom, I was just overwhelmed

when I realized I wasn't a lazy mom, I was just overwhelmed

Do you ever feel like you go through the bulk of your life smiling and nodding every time a certain topic comes up? Maybe it is grade 11 math. Or how to properly use effect/affect. Or what really happens to a responsible adult’s shopping list once they enter into a Costco. Then one day it … Read more

When Motherhood Can Change You but You Can’t Change Motherhood

I thought I would be more settled with motherhood. 4 and half years and three kids in and I constantly feel like my heart is a trampoline for all my worst feelings to have a playdate on. Like most women who become moms,  I had confidence in my abilities to be a mom, wife, homemaker before … Read more

How to make a daily schedule for you and your kids at home

family daily schedule during isolation written on chalkboard overlay with text

Once I was a mom with three small kids, I realized the life-giving value that ‘a plan’ can bring to your day.  A plan helps you know when things will happen, make sure you make time for the things you want to do, and prepare all the mindsets/resources/supplies you need for the plan to happen.  … Read more