I do get a lot of questions about the products I like, toys I prefer for my kids, books I’m reading. I don’t believe we need to buy ALL THE THINGS, I am a proponent of less is more. But I still get use out of and enjoyment from STUFF, specifically stuff that makes my life better.
This list will focus on things that are low/zero waste, things that make my life simpler and things that I wish I would have bought sooner.
So I want to share with you the things I have been happy to invest in, and things that make my life better/easier.
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These are cards with question prompts on them. I found them at the thrift store, but I think they are simple investment because they have transformed our dinner conversation from the typical round table (what was great, what was hard) to something that generates a bit more response and interaction. The kids call them ‘family questions’ and actually pull the box out and ask for them during dinner.
This is a game we played when we were first married (there is a two-player version) and then we upgraded a couple of years ago so the kids could play too. It is a strategy game that is simple enough for the kids to play (my five-year-old plays) but very interesting enough that adults can play it too.
Line a Day
There is something special about documenting a bit of your daily life. This line a day book spans 5 years and lets you make a couple sentences about that day. I love to read back on it and see what we were doing years ago – it takes me back to remembering the details of the daily life with toddlers and babies.
Q+A a day
We recently completed the line a day book and my sister in law gave me this one. A question a day. Now that the kids are older this is a really fun way to get a snapshot of who they are and what is on their mind on a daily basis – and watch how it changes. Again, something they love and ask for because I’m raising tiny nerds.
I played this years ago with my brother and his family and then bought it for myself to play with my friends. The premise is that you have nine tiles laid out full of photos. Then you flip a card over and find the matching picture on the tiles. There are ways you can make it simpler or more complicated. Now we pull it out and play it with our kids. It is so simple to play that most ages can play it, our youngest was 4 when we started playing it as a family.
I paid the money for these and I don’t regret it. As a longstanding member of the #coldfeetclub I have spent a lot of money on fuzzy socks and slippers and still, my toes feel the chill. So, I thought I would just try heated socks and turns out they are on my feet almost every night from October to April (#Canada). I think my husband is most excited about these because I don’t shove my iced toes under his body with the constant expectation he’ll solve my cold feet problems with his body heat.
(I even wear them when we go out snowshoeing, sledding or anytime I’ll have to stand outside in the cold for a while)
The Finnish Way
This book explains some of the cultural practices in Finland, where they experience true winter. It really made me reframe how I viewed resiliency, how it can be something we grow on a daily basis through how we interact with nature and how we believe in our abilities to do harder things. Also, this book has encouraged me to get outside every day, no matter the weather
The Book of Hygge
If you have been around the blog or podcast you have probably heard me talk about hygge – the danish word that means connected, cozy and content. I have read a few books on it and really love this one because it also explores the socio-economic foundations on which hygge is grown from.
(I like makeup, etc. Here are some of my go-to items)
Aztec Clay Mask
My little sister recommended this to me and I really do love how it makes my skin feel. The only drawback is that it is in powder form and you mix it yourself. But I guess that it is also the perk of making it affordable and customizable.
I was hesitant to buy this eyeshadow palette because it is a big investment. But, I bought it five years ago and wear it almost daily and I’m still not done with it yet! A little bit goes a long way. And this palette is so flattering on almost all skin types. If this palette feels too large, they also make smaller basic ones.
Some women have naturally bombshell-sheen to their hair. I just have all the baby flyaways that haven’t stopped sprouting even though my youngest is 5. I also have fine hair so products weigh it down really easily. This oil is so light and smells delicious and makes my hair feel like silk. It is a splurge I treat myself to, but again, a little goes such a long way.
When I was up all night thinking about toothbrushes in the landfill I noticed that I thought my pillowcase was scratchy and loud. I know it sounds like something someone who stresses about toothbrushes would also get fixated on. BUT, then I was talking about pillowcases with a girlfriend and she said the same thing! So we challenged ourselves to find some silk or satin pillowcases to see if it made a difference. And I LOVE it. I know that many people choose it to avoid messing up their hair (especially curly hair) and leaving fine lines on their face – but I mostly love how it feels and how quiet it is.
Most prefer silk because it is a natural fibre – though it’s more expensive. I have been happy with the satin.
boar bristle hairbrush
About 16 years ago my mom bought be a wooden Goody boar bristle hairbrush. I thought it was so random. But over the past years, I have started to use it almost every night and now I see why people love them. The boar bristles carry your hair’s natural oils from your roots down your hair shaft. These oils condition your hair and make your hair shiny and sleek. It helps your hair go a bit longer between washing. (If you do use one, make sure to pull up sections of hair and brush the bottom layers then work your way up, you want to get all the hair on your head, not just the surface of it).
Years ago my MIL made me a spa basket for Christmas, it was so practical but also indulgent! She added in some exfoliation gloves and they have been in my shower ever since. I love the feeling of having a good scrub down and use them at least once a week. They say this kind of scrub down is so good for detoxing, circulation and revealing all that smooth skin underneath the dead layers. Every so often I throw them through the wash and they have lasted me a long time.
clear purse bag
This is the bag you put IN your bag. I keep a clear bag in my purse and it is full of all the random things: bandaids, pens, lipstick (all the lipsticks), tampons, headphones, medicine, a pack of the electrolytes I shared above, my cheque book, etc. You know, lady things!
I love having a clear place to just grab things as I need them. I don’t have to dog through my purse and lose caps to lipstick or have a pen leak through my purse, or goodness forbid take to long searching for that rogue bandaid!
It comes in handy all the time, except when my kids pull out my purse contents at church for the whole row to see. Good thing I often sit beside other moms with kids wild like mine.
We get our kid soap from lush. They make fun soaps like this snow fairy one and another favourite we have is the rainbow one. They smell great, make bubbles and can be used as a shampoo.
Bonus is my kids love them and there is no argument about washing up when they have this soap.
Always, for everyone, the end. My kids have been playing with legos every single day since we brought the out about five years ago. My oldest was 3 and he took right to them. They are a staple for every birthday and Christmas. They also line my kitchen table. But I don’t mind, they get right into playing with them and it keeps them occupied for hours.
When my oldest was born my MIL bought me this little timer. You click the button each time you change a diaper, feed, sleep. And you can toggle a switch to remember which side you just nursed on. I used these with each of the three kids and it took such a load of my mind for tracking all these things.
Grad class shirts
Years ago I saw a friend take a picture of her kindergarteners in these big oversized shirts that read their graduating year. I have since been buying one for each of my kids as they started kindergarten and I take a picture of them in it on their last day of school each year. I am sure this makes up for my lack of ever buying their posed school photos.
I have been listening to a lot of podcasts on functional medicine and one common denominator is hydration. I know I don’t drink enough water so I wanted to try electrolytes. I tried a few kinds but found them so sweet, in a fake and grainy way. This is one brand I have loved the taste of the most and I drink it almost daily. The bonus is that it is loaded with Vitamin B & C, so I also give some to the kids when illnesses are going around.
One great thing I have noticed is that I have fewer headaches, especially when travelling if I start my day with electrolytes.
This is a stool that sits at the base of your toilet and you put your feet on it to create a squatting position – which makes the whole process a lot easier on the body. Yes….I’m talking about poop. I am not ashamed to care about my colon health, I care about yours too, this is why I want to tell you about this.
Questions that keep me up at night: ‘What happens to a toothbrush in the landfill?’ My kids go through a few toothbrushes a year and I hated that we just throw them out. So I switched us to bamboo (somehow the kids all still have plastic ones again from the dentist and school loot bags). Either way, I really love the bamboo ones. I really don’t notice a difference between bamboo and plastic in terms of brushing my teeth – but I do love how the handle feels in my hand.
In an effort to move away from plastic wrap, I have looked into ways to store food without the waste. My friend told me about these bowl covers to I grabbed this super affordable set and I LOVE them. They can be stretched onto bowls, cups, containers, even square containers.
I make a big show of it in my house and will turn the container upside down and show how the cover holds its place. Like when you get a blizzard at DQ (dramatic flair makes the ordinary extraordinary!)
I decided to invest in organizing my kitchen this year. I’m usually so cheap so I put this off as long as I could. But, once I made these purchases I was wondering why I didn’t do it sooner.
I recently told Conor that this pan rack and the lid rack have just made our kitchen like a 100X better, and he smiled and said ‘and our marriage’. Yup, nobody can relay passive-aggressive messages through messily stacked dishes anymore!
I had this picturesque idea that I could have lids on all my pots, and line them up on the shelf in a pretty row. But it turned into a free for all mixer and I had to get down on my knees to find matches for lids and pots.
Lesson learned: there is magic in the art of tidying up!
Ceramic French Press
I have had this french press for three years now. Which has broken a household record of how long we have gone without having to replace a french press. We always had glass french presses and they broke often. This press is heavy-duty ceramic, dishwasher safe and it comes in so many adorable colours.
I bought these three years ago and have one for each of the kids’ rooms, and one for Conor to hang on our door for all his work clothes. I appreciate how you can make better use of your space from hanging this behind a door in place of having a hamper around.
I invested in these about ten years ago and I haven’t gone back to big plastic or wires ones since. They hold the clothes in place, they save space, and they are pleasant to look at. I don’t have doors on my closet so this visual consistency helps bring more simplicity to my closet.
We have been using cloth napkins since before it was cool to use cloth napkins. Not really a brag, more of a statement on how weathered and worn our current napkin supply was. I had been slowly gathering replacements from the thrift store or other sales, but then I saw this set at such a good price that I went for it. Conor was very excited because I never splurge on upgrading our towels, let alone buying a whole matching set. It feels very adult to share these around the table when we have people over.
wooden dish brush
My kitchen experience was transformed when I bought my first dish brush. I was using plastic ones and would wear them out until they looked like I had run over them with a lawnmower. I didn’t feel good about throwing them out into the garbage (I mean, toothbrushes have kept me up at night!).
This summer I found a wooden one – you can get replacement heads for them! We can all do our part saving the planet right? One dish brush at a time!
Since I learned about bullet journaling, I have been loving the paper planner way of life. I have tried many of them and this is my current favourite. There is a weekly layout, monthly layouts and lots of room/flexibility for me to write whatever I want to keep track of. Plus there is a fun little ‘currently’ list to do at the end of each month.
A vertical mouse
I have been looking into ways to make my workspace more ergonomically friendly and heard about these vertical mouses (mice?). I spend a lot of time at the computer and thought wrist pain and arm pain would be part of running the trackpad for hours in a day. I started out with a cheap vertical mouse and noticed a big difference in two days – so I returned it and upgraded it to this one by Logitech. The best part is, you can set up hotkeys on the mouse to do things like moving forward or backwards on the page – or a click to reveal your whole desktop.
Adults like felts too!
I love to write things out and track things in my planner – and when you write a lot you, you appreciate the value of a great pen that doesn’t bleed through the pages.
I think I have a soft spot for stationery and I’m not ashamed to call myself a Pen Snob. Really, we should all be Pen Snobs, the world deserves better pens that those ballpoint dried-up disasters abandoned in our desk drawers. I’ve always loved Pilot pens, their tips are so fine and the liquid ink ones make me feel like a calligrapher.
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